I realize now that I really didn’t give any information on my
recovery at home after the surgery. I have to apologize for that. Let me go
over what it was like for me after coming home from the hospital.
The first day I came home my hubby had to fill my
prescriptions…which came in a giant paper grocery bag. I had to give myself
morning injections of Lovenox for blood thinning, I had pills for inflammation,
I had pills for stool softening (really?), and I had pills for pain management.
I also had to take calcium pills for bone health. It was ridiculous. Besides
the medications, I had to have the CPM machine and the wheelchair delivered. I
also had to schedule the Visiting Nurses home care company to come and assess
my home and help me learn how to live in my environment with my condition.
Being home was hard. Not because it was painful (it really wasn’t
very painful), but because I wasn’t able to do a freakin’ thing on my own. My
discharge instructions were as follows: “Activity as tolerated: Not Allowed,
Housework: Not Allowed, Strenuous Activity: Not Allowed.” To make things worse…the
discharge instructions also stated that I had to keep my body at an angle less
than 70 degrees at all times. This was, BY FAR, the most frustrating part of
recovery. I had to sit in a recliner, in the fully reclined position, every,
single, day. It was infuriating. Anytime I had to do anything, sit in a chair,
get out of the chair, sit in the bathroom, anything…I had to be angled. It was
the winter of perpetual slouching.
What’s worse is that even if I wanted to do something on my
own…there was no way I could. My leg was so weak that I couldn’t move it on my
own. I wasn’t able to get into or out of bed by myself…I couldn’t get dressed
by myself…I couldn’t even put socks on by myself. It was an incredibly
eye-opening, and humbling experience. My husband had to help me every second of
every day when I needed something. That guy’s a champ and he deserves a medal
for dealing with me. I was not the best patient at times…I’ll admit it.
The first week home was the hardest, as expected. The visiting
nurses came and helped my hubby and I figure out how to do things like go up
and down the stairs, get into bed, get onto the toilet, get into and out of the
shower, etc. (we had to buy a shower seat, but it was totally worth the
investment). The nurse (whose name was Harmoine, loved that) checked my bandage
while I still had it, and my incision once Dr. S. was able to take the bandage
off a week after coming home. She also took my temperature and my blood pressure
when she came. I was given a series of exercises to do three times a day every
day. The nurse came twice a week for the next few weeks to help me with these
exercises, and to add new ones or tweak old ones. The visiting nurses were
really great. It was helpful for me, as I was really lost for the first few
weeks. I had to really re-learn a lot of things.
I needed 24 hour care until Dr. S. said otherwise. So, to help
with my care until early December, my hubby recruited some of my wonderful
family members to stay at the house and take care of me so he could make into
the office a few days a week. For the first three weeks or so after surgery, I
pretty much slept all the time. I was tired constantly as my body tried to
recover from the trauma. Also, it would take a couple weeks for my body to
completely get back to normal after the blood transfusion reaction. After the
first three weeks, I really started to feel pretty good, and we got into a good
routine.
I kept doing my home exercises until Dr. S. cleared me for
physical therapy (PT) about 7 weeks after surgery (early December). This meant
a couple things for me: Once I started PT, I no longer needed 24 hour care, and
I could start weaning off the crutches at PT. I started PT twice a week in the
facility, and worked out once at home on my own. That was when the frustration
really began. I wanted to go from 0 mph-100 mph and had a very rude awakening
when I started PT. My right leg was a mess. My thigh muscles, and some of my
calf had atrophied, and the spot where Dr. S had to re-attach the rectus muscles
in the thigh to the iliac crest was extremely painful. It was still healing. I
lost feeling in the outside of my thigh, and during exercising it twitches and
can be an uncomfortable feeling. Even my calf and my foot were really, really
fatigued, I had no balance.
Slowly and surely I regained movement and flexibility in my leg.
The day that I could put socks on by myself, I did a little victory dance. That
was a big day for me. After starting PT, it took another two and a half weeks
until I was off the crutches completely…but I resorted to using my cane for a
while. It’s winter here in New England and the snow and the ice create an
obstacle I wish I didn’t have. Once I finally did get off the crutches, and was
back to walking “normally,” the hip itself felt really great. There’s no pain
in the hip joint at all. The pain that I’m feeling during physical therapy is
all thigh muscle pain and pain from where he had to detach and cut through the
muscles to get to the hip joint.
I waited 12 weeks after surgery before going back to work. This
brought me t0 a mid-January return date. This was doctor’s orders…but looking
back I’m so glad I did what he said to do. My family and I laugh about it now
because, under normal circumstances, I really can’t ever sit still. I’m almost
always doing something, somewhere. So, to be a captive audience at home for 12
weeks nearly drove us all crazy. I did invest in Netflix and Hulu, though, so I
watched a LOT of TV. I actually tallied up everything I did while out on leave:
During my 85 day medical leave of absence I watched 9 seasons of Grey's
Anatomy, 2 seasons of Lost, and 2 seasons of Dawson's Creek. I completed 5
mystery solving games on my iPad. I read five books, knit two scarves, and
taught myself how to crochet. I also learned how to walk again, how to lean on
people when I really need them...and how to ask for help. I pushed myself to
the max, and it was entertaining, informative, exhausting, and revitalizing all
at the same time. Going back to work was a huge step for me, and I was so
excited.
I was walking really well by about 10 weeks into PT
(mid-February). I could walk short distances without much problem, and if I had
to walk long distances, I took it slow and used my cane. I certainly wasn’t
winning any races. The biggest obstacle for me was the pain at the reattachment
point. I had a really hard time overcoming that. I couldn’t lift my leg into a
marching position, or move my leg out forward. It took me probably 3-4 weeks to
be able to walk over short hurdles at PT without a lot of pain. Once I was able to walk well, I started to
notice that if I walked too quickly…or too normally (read: without a limp), my
hip would buckle with pain. The same pain I had prior to the surgery. This was
because of the labral tears. I knew it was time to start thinking about my next
surgery. So, about 18 weeks after PAO surgery, Dr. S and I scheduled my second
procedure (which I covered in my previous entry).
So, here are some overall thoughts and major points to take away
from the PAO surgery:
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Prepare as much as you possibly can beforehand.
Practice using the crutches, figure out where you’re going to be when
recovering (upstairs, downstairs, what chair will you be in, etc.), and align
people in advance to help you.
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Get the handicap plate. I am a stubborn person
and if you’re like me you won’t want to get the plate…but this is not the time
for that. That plate has helped me significantly.
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Take time out of work to heal. Every doctor has
a different protocol for recovering from this surgery. My doctor’s protocol appeared
to be (in comparison to what I’ve read elsewhere) a fairly conservative
recovery protocol. Taking time out of work wasn’t an option for me. The doctor
asked me to stay out of work. However I have heard of people going back to work
a couple weeks later. This is a big surgery, and the healing process for me was
complex and challenging. I’m sure it differs from procedure to procedure…but
personally I suggest taking at least 3 weeks out of work.
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Prepare for the fact that after surgery, you may
have a large area without any sensation. This area may or may not ever regain
sensation. For me, it is a large part of my thigh to my right of the incision
(about the size of a football). I knew this was a possibility before the
surgery, but I always said “so what if I don’t have feeling?” Well…it’s not
that simple. I have odd muscle spasms, and a lot of nerve tingling and pain.
The feelings that I get because of the numb area are uncomfortable. It’s a
small price to pay, and I’m certainly not complaining. Just something to
prepare for.
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Do ALL of your home PT as OFTEN as they tell you
to do it. If they say they want you to do it three times a day, do it three
times a day regardless of how tired or sore you are. I can’t begin to explain
how much easier this made things. And if I missed even a day, the next time I
did the exercises I could feel the setback. It matters. Do it every single day.
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Expect a setback or two. It more than likely
won’t be smooth sailing. I pulled several oblique muscles on my right side
three weeks post surgery. That actually hurt worse than the surgery pain. I
couldn’t move at all without severe pain in my side. I could hardly even
breathe. I had to rest for a few days without any home PT, and when I started
up again, I could feel the setback.
And here’s the most important thing:
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BE PATIENT. Patient, patient, patient. Recovery
is frustrating, and sometimes discouraging.
You will have setbacks…you will get mad…you’ll want to rush through things…but
just always remember to take a deep breath and be PATIENT. This surgery is a
big deal…and your body is going to take a LONG time to get back to “normal.”
Cut yourself some slack here and there. Try and learn how to focus on the now. I
am one week post-op for the arthroscopic procedure. I’ve been on
crutches/rehabbing/dealing with hip issues from the PAO for just about 22 weeks.
And now I had my hip cut open AGAIN. This just added 7 more weeks of crutches
and another 3.5-4 MONTHS of PT to my recovery. You can imagine my frustration.
But, I have learned over the past couple months that this isn’t something that
you can rush…even if you try. It’s SLOW. Every single day I have a moment where
I get frustrated and aggravated and quite frankly just sick of this crap. But I
just keep telling myself…in the long run I’m going to be in a way better place.
So, overall, recovery has been trying. It has been tough, and
slow-going. It’s been exhausting. And now I’ve gone backwards another few steps
because of the surgery last week. However, in the grand scheme of things, I
feel really good about what I’ve been through. I’ve had to work really hard,
and it’s going to have to continue…but in the end it will all be worthwhile. I’m
on the road to having a really great biomechanical hip, a hip that could last
me and be pain free maybe even for the rest of my life if I treat it well. I
haven’t taken a step without pain in about 9 or 10 years. The first time I do,
I will know this was ALL worthwhile.
